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Signs You Might Be Doing Too Much

Signs You Might Be Doing Too Much

Are you running on empty? Does your everyday schedule feel like it’s just too much?

Maybe you’re doing too much.

You’re having trouble sleeping and/or concentrating.

Sleep and concentration issues are the absolute worst. You’re just not useful on less than at least six hours. If you notice that your sleep is less than peaceful or that you simply have trouble focusing on everyday tasks and routines then you might be doing the most and should reevaluate the items on that full day-planner of yours.

You’re always canceling on plans or double booking yourself.

Oh no, you didn’t. Not again – you’ve double booked yourself, or worse yet, you’ve completely spaced and forgot you even made plans with someone. It’s one thing to be late to something you said you’d be there for, it’s another thing entirely to miss it altogether. If you find yourself ‘spread too thin’ with too many plans or events you just can’t keep track of, try scaling back on your agenda. You can’t be everywhere at once and people know this. Sure they might be a little upset that you can’t join them, but think of how much more upset they’d be if you ended up canceling on them at the last minute, or not even showing up at all.

You’re hearing it from people that love you.

Has your roommate confronted you about your irritability lately? Maybe it’s not them, it’s you. If you’re hearing from others how frazzled or easily agitated you’ve been, try taking them seriously and take their words to heart. Remember, they’re on your side.

You’re exhausted (mentally, physically, spiritually, etc.).

I’ve mentioned before in regards to anxiety, if your body is responding, take note of it. Your body can tell you things your mind can’t…or won’t. One huge sign that you might need to take a few things off of your plate is if you find yourself in a constant state of exhaustion.

You can’t seem to keep priorities straight anymore.

Though this one might be more of a spiritual discipline in need of development – if you are having a harder time than usual with prioritization, perhaps it’s time to cut back on some things. If you can’t keep your priorities straight not only will you fall (or get left) behind on important tasks, but others will have a hard time trusting you with their own time.

Take a moment and make a to-do list if you have to. Label the items on the list from most important to least important. Highlight the most important task in red Sharpie. Do whatever it takes to get it done.

Tips to alleviate the stress of doing too much:

  • If you use a planner, take time to circle or highlight the tasks you need to get done, and do them first.
  • If you don’t use a planner, get one. Write down your plans for the day, week or month ahead.
  • Take note of any and every important date (i.e. a friend’s wedding, relative’s birthday, work event, etc.) and also put it into your phone.
  • Set an alarm if you need to. Set it to go off one hour or two before a scheduled appointment or important meeting.
  • Cut it out altogether. If there’s something on your schedule that just doesn’t work for you anymore, drop it. Maybe it’s time for a change. If you must, take it off your plate. It’s better to do well in some things than to do poorly in all things. Multitasking is not always best. 

Did I miss anything? What tips would you suggest to ease the stress of doing too much?

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Leighann

Twenty-something, lover of Jesus. I like animals (esp. dogs), Fun-Fetti cupcakes and yoga. I love God and do my best to love others. I hate too-warm weather and socks that fall into your shoes when you walk. I'm a huge fan of Christian rap and cold, sunny days.

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  • Sheila

    Great tips! I’m a big fan of living a simpler life, and that often begins with simplifying your schedule. Thanks for your help.

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks for reading, Sheila – I am learning that simplifying is the way to go. Especially when things get overwhelming!

  • Rashida

    I feel like I’m always trying to do too much & then I get overwhelmed & burnt out. I think it’s because I’m so desperate to get out of my current situation that I’m going into overdrive at the expense of my overall health.

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      I am the same way, girl! And it’s easy to go into escapism mode for me too, but I have to get to a point where I realize my sanity is worth more than my ‘need’ to keep busy. I’m always trying to do too much as well – the first step is acceptance, right? Thanks for reading, Rashida!

  • Fehintola

    Great tips Leighann. I find all that you’ve said to be very useful. I got a blog planner and also a planner on my phone to help me plan my task. It hasnt been easy using it but I try to be consistent with it. I find it helps me keep my focus on what I need to do and also to remember.

    As for taking on too much, I’ve learnt that, at the office, I do take on more than I should and get tired or burnt out quickly so for a while now I’ve kept to my assigned tasks and duties. I hope it helps me not feel too overwhelmed with work.

    http://www.fehintolaogunye.com/2017/02/words-of-encouragement-for-new-week_21.html?m=1

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks for sharing and reading Fehintola! I’m glad it was helpful and if I’ve learned anything from this season of busyness, it’s that planning and having a planner is key!

  • Chen Tan

    I think I can improve more on the end of doing more. However, I have a close friend who seems to match most of your criteria. I agree on the ‘getting a planner’ part, since it takes a load of effort from the person. Cheers 🙂

    • Leighann

      Leighann

      Thanks so much for reading, Chen! I hear you about your friend – I am planning to buy a new planner this week. It’s time to get serious about prioritizing!

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